unconditional acceptance is hard for alot of people to understand, let alone do it.. so why is it hard??, simply because what you can't understand you can't accept, so let's move to the obvious question, why can't anyone completely understand another one?? to answer that just let me brief you about sth you already know, and have been through.
how is the person's trait formed,it's gene and environment, so in order to be something (honest, liar, aggressive, calm) it all comes from having the gene in your DNA, and then it's the experiences that you pass through all your life is what shapes your thinking, your attitude, and your behaviour, we've always been keen to learn from other's mistakes, but it is not only the mistakes that shapes us, it's the whole experience, and no experience is repeated, so no matter how much you think you're passing through the same situation as your best friend, no matter how hard you try to be empathetic, it's not the same, because simply you're not him, and you're not in his situation, you don't have the same previous experience and if you do, then by that time, he'll be somewhere else, and is someone else.
how is the person's trait formed,it's gene and environment, so in order to be something (honest, liar, aggressive, calm) it all comes from having the gene in your DNA, and then it's the experiences that you pass through all your life is what shapes your thinking, your attitude, and your behaviour, we've always been keen to learn from other's mistakes, but it is not only the mistakes that shapes us, it's the whole experience, and no experience is repeated, so no matter how much you think you're passing through the same situation as your best friend, no matter how hard you try to be empathetic, it's not the same, because simply you're not him, and you're not in his situation, you don't have the same previous experience and if you do, then by that time, he'll be somewhere else, and is someone else.
No I believe I can accept what I can't understand. It's kind of a flexibility sort of thing! :D .. I mean if one can't accept what he can't understand, and he can't understand because he hasn't got the same genes, and everyone has different genes, then that means that NO one can accept ANYthing different than his own genes. Which is not the case, I think! :):)
ReplyDeleteAnd though I said my point of view, which is kind of a different one! I accept what you've wrote, and I actually love the topic. ;) :):)
salmaaaaaaaa :D 27na nas 2omm il flexibilty :D bas there are others who dont :D these are the ones who cant get it, and these are the ones i'm addressing, i'll take that into consideration next time ;D
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