Thursday, May 26, 2011

A flower, A kiss, and a Thank you


I've always wanted my sister to treat me in a better way, I tried advising her, telling her to stop doing stuff that irritated me, but nothing had worked.

The following scenario used to take place a lot 3 years ago, right now not so much:

I enter the room, and look peacefully at my little sister and say: "hey dodo, how are you today??"
She suspiciously looks and tells me:"what do you want!!!!!"
I tell her with a smile: "nothing, just checking up how you're doing =)" and I leave her 
That response didn't come that easy, first there was: "I WANT NOTHING, IS SEEING HOW YOU'RE DOING IS A CRIME WTF *@!#" 
But then with passage of time I managed to change my response to the irritating one above

That scene was repeated 5 to 10 times per day, and to irritate her more, I used to storm into our room, and kiss her for no obvious reason, and on my way home I’d buy her a single long stem flower (I know she loves flowers). 
Though she used to give that irritated suspicious "what do you want" look, I never asked for anything, cause all I wanted was to see her happy, and appreciated, cause I’ve always felt like she was doing a lot.

Nowadays I also irritate her by doing a couple of other stuff =), whenever she asks me for anything, I tell her okay, whatever you want, and I keep saying thank you, and sorry (if I do something that maybe, MAYBE made her upset) ... while doing so, I realized that I never appreciated her, at least not out spoken

So Now, I REALLY do appreciate every little thing that she does, and I’m grateful to have her as my little sister (though it's hard to believe that she's younger than me). And that is obvious by words and actions....

And she too ... her relationship with me is... Well it has never been greater =)

So the point is..... well you can guess it yourself.. isn't it obvious ;P

Oh one thing to write this note, I entered our room and sat in front of her, with a smile on my face =) guess her reaction =D

4 comments:

  1. :DDDDDDDDDD

    This is beautiful :)))))

    Am glad that you and your sister are getting along much better now :)))

    This is the beauty of realizing that "It's NOT ALL ABOUT ME" :) :) The beauty of putting yourself in the other's shoes and try to draw a smile on his/her face :)))

    It changes your life just by seeing someone smile because of you or telling you "Thank You 4 making me happy and smiley" :)))

    Diro, Rabena ye5aliko l ba3d w yekremko w yebarekloko dayman :)))

    Love you sweet girl :) <3 <3

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  2. How adorable! :) Wish I had a sister who gets me a flower every now and then ;) <3 :):)

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  3. @May : fakra fe akher meeting lamma 2olt eny bastafezohom :D still ba3mel keda :D LOOOL bgd for the first time 2stefzaz il nas 7elww :D and not destructive :D
    @salma : maybe you'll get one =)

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  4. they say if you really want a woman to get mad or confused give her a gift with no reason

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