A Passing Thought in a Non-Passing Time

Sometimes it gets hard to understand why we get things wrong in life, why we fail to recognise a repeating pattern. 

Sometimes we wish for something so much, that the need for it to become true can blind us to obvious facts. 

Sometimes we think we can survive just by wishful thinking, so naive!!!

Sometimes we want to believe that things would change just to suit our dreams and our hopes for what we see as a better future, or a future version of ourselves, how pathetic!!!!

Sometimes we just forget that though we are the centre of our own universe, we are not the centre of anyone else's!!!

And also sometimes we tend to forget that there are things that are completely and totally out of our hands, and though we might be in control of our life, we can't control others'.

Sometimes we necessarily forget that in order to move forward in our life we need to be a bit selfish and consider our needs instead of our wants, and qt the same time we need to be considerate to those around us who make our life easier and so should we be toward them :)

A Turkish Lesson

The ess and the zee and the one letter in-between. As simple as it may sound, but a simple letter between the 's' and the 'z' can cause a flip in the meaning of the word coming before it.

How could it be, that a 3 lettered extension, which is not even a complete word can cause so much confusion, can mean the opposite of what one might have to say, it is like one letter it is there, then 3 letters afterward it is absolutely gone!!! Strange, isn't it? Maybe even absurd!!

But strange as it is, this sometimes stands for life in practice; one moment you are offered something, then the minute you hesitate it is not just gone, but someone else made the best off of it, maybe even exploit the chance to something you never imagined. 

Not possible you might say, but this is a truth I might say; life may offer you more than a chance (Maybe, Could be, Might be, Possibly…), but keep in your mind, that no chance is like the other, and no chance is supposed to help you JUST use what you already have and what you already know. Every chance will be about raising the standards, YOUR standards and allowing you (if you nicely let it) to develop yourself for a future version of yourself, for a different version of yourself.

LOOK !!!

Hey look at that.

Did you see that?

Let’s concentrate on that.

This is what matters.

All those lines usually tends to redirect our attention to a certain position or a certain one, usually they are the pointed at. Which we tend to focus on and consider every aspect and position and possible outcome of the pointed at.

JUST A SECOND.

Let's consider the pointer, who is he? Why is he pointing at that in specifically? Why did he choose that timing? Why did he choose this method to point?

Seems a bit paranoid? Well we need to know why this person is presenting the other side the way they are, do they get a benefit from doing so? Are they after something else? Are they distracting us? Are they clouding our opinion? Are they trying intentionally to mislead us, or they are doing it without noticing? Are they being direct by others?

All these questions should rise, right next to what is being pointed at

It's Obvious

When the milk is spilt we shouldn't spend a lot of time crying over it, actually we shouldn't spend anytime at all crying over it, as it wouldn't change anything about the fact that it's already spilt. But we can do, is to avoid giving the milk to the person who spilt it if it wasn't his first time to act recklessly and irresponsibly. Instead we should find a person more qualified to deliver the items without causing loss and destruction.

Ya, I’m not talking about the milk anymore.

Life in Retrospect

Have you ever thought about the past? Thought about what could have been done to change the outcome that you currently are dissatisfied with? Have you looked at your decisions in retrospect? And been so judgmental that you thought you will lose your mind?

Haven’t we all felt guilty at a certain point in our lives where we wished not for a second chance, but for a do-over, where we will be positive of the correct choice that we should go with?

But why regret the things that happened to us? Why feel sorry for ourselves about the things we "think" we can change? Who said we could change the past? A time machine is not an option, and beating yourself up will only hold you back.

We have to accept the events of the past and deal with them as FACTS because they are non-changeable. And there were no way we would have avoided them in the past. But sure as hell we can benefit from their impact for a better future.

A Semi Daily Scenery

On my way home, I was anxious to see the nothing that was left there, but unfortunately for me as we got there, I saw the little pieces of the glass that were scattered on the road. They took me back 14 hours earlier. When I saw the crowd that moved really slowly, and I was very irritated from how people like to watch and meddle into things that they shouldn't meddle in, how they banally and superficially are seeing and commenting on a certain event. An event that took place semi daily and in the same place, mostly caused by the same reason, different people committing the same mistake day in and day out. What irritated me most is that their focus made me wanna too know what has taken place and while moving forward, I’ve been stealing glances trying to guess at which side did the event take place; will it be on my right, or on my left? Though I had a lot on my mind I kept peaking from laptop, as I was trying to finish some irrelative work.

Slowly and inch by inch, we got there, and to my surprise it was on both sides, and as we made our way through, moving like we were walking on egg shells, I noticed the newspaper pages arranged in a longitudinal way covering up half the car from the inside. And as we passed I had one question in mind, why didn't they use the prayer mat that was at the end of the car

Already Given

have you ever believed that you were given everything that you might need in your life to help you through the good times and the hard ones. things that would help you become who you are supposed to be, things that drive you to move forward in your life.

You know it, and you're 100 % sure of it, and when the time comes for you to prove the use of the things you've been given, you suddenly freeze and tend to act like you don't know anything, and then when you chill you start asking yourself, why aren't you using the knowledge that you know, the experiences that you've witnessed before, the know how.

Maybe it's because you aren't ready to accept your knowledge, maybe because you don't actually know how to use this knowledge, maybe you , maybe you, maybe you…… YOU