Just one Reason

You can write up to 20 reasons to why you don't wanna do something and they'd all look like the right thing to do. And after that can come just one lonely lousy reason what is not even convincing enough, or right enough, or aligned with who you thought you are and can make you change your mind, and make you do something that up till then you thought you wouldn't do. All that might lead to discovering that maybe you didn't have the priorities arranged as you thought they were, or that maybe there's something that you wanted but never really thought of asking for it. 

Starts and Ends with a YES

I wasn't gonna write anything about the chart below. But after I finished it, it looked more complicated than while writing it.

So when facing a difficulty, or a hard situation, maybe something that gets on your nerves, what do we do? Should we face it, or do we walk away? If we face it, how can we use it to our benefit?

You can ask for help or help yourself.

You may trust the wrong person.

Maybe the person you approached was unable to help you or was untrustworthy.

But it all ends with the "U R GOOD" that is encircled and it means that you're done it and overcame that obstacle

Which to which

We all have our happy moments and our sad moments.

Some of us like to share them to get through them, others prefer to keep to them selves. 

All is understandable

But let's agree to a simple fact, it's easy to fake a smile than a tear.

When telling people you're happy moments you'll be facing one of many options:

* People may be truly happy for you, whether they know you or even if they don't.

*People may pretend to be happy for you, even though it made no difference to them.

*People may envy you, for your happiness may seem something that is not achievable to them.

*People may use your happiness to fuel their engines to bring out the best in them.

When telling people about your sad moments, you may encounter other reactions:

*Some will be truly hurt as if it was them and not you.

*Some will use your sadness to spot the light to themselves.

*Some will try to fake sadness, but won't be able to keep the façade for so long.

*Some will ignore you and your pain.

*Some will look up to your pain and get motivated to be strong.

Which situation do you want to share with which people is totally depending on you:

You may want to know who really cares about you and who wants to see you fall, so you choose to share your sad moment with those you'd want to test.

You may decide to withhold your happiness cause it won't help the people around you to move forward.

You may share your sadness to make people see that there's a downside to life that you can beat and can move forward from.

It's all depending on you, so before anything, deal with your moments and share them as soon as you can with those that you choose.

I like to move it move it

How about a daily promise,

It’s not that easy to make, yet it is very hard to keep,

Just rethink it before continuing further in even considering it.

A promise to try as hard as you can and to never let go of any jumping opportunity that might appear at any time, just because "it just wasn't the correct time", or you weren't prepared.

Work hard today that Yesterday would be jealous of how much energy you're spending in today that you didn't spend yesterday.

Work hard today so that tomorrow will think that there'll be nothing left when it comes, making it eager to come so that it can contribute to what you're doing

Do the best that you can NOW because the past is gone, and tomorrow is far away.

The opportunity may never come -the right and perfect one- but when you're working you're making opportunities you're creating change, you're setting a path that you can choose to continue later on. You're being the maximum you can be in a single moment of your day.

So be

So Work

Just A Thought; Part 2

I've read a blog post by a friend of mine, it was talking about death, it reminded me of something that I've been meaning to publish.

The VoICe WHiThin:  Death and all his friends:

http://anegm88.blogspot.com/2012/02/death-and-all-his-friends.html 

The idea of death IS the only fact that there is to be sure about in life, and everyone can look at it from a different perspective:

There are those who embrace the fact that they'll one day die, and so they do their best because they know the end will be the same.

And there are those who are driven by the same conclusion, only to a different direction, that since the destination will always be the grave, then what's the reason or the purpose of even trying, what's the drive to make you want to get up out of bed everyday, what will make you want to enhance your life and the also the life of those affected by yours.

So What !!

Why do people get depressed? This is not a sarcastic question. Why do WE get depressed? Why do we waste a considerable amount of our time wondering what's wrong with us? Why aren't we happy already, what is missing, what will complete us, what is the fulfilling step that will take us toward an endless happiness -something that we never actually achieve with that kind of thinking- why do we spend our time mourning and moping about events that happened or might happen and make it ruin our day, our mood, and sometimes ruin our life, cause we can't seem to be able to enjoy any of it at all.

Everyday on my way to work, I observe people's expressions while driving their cars to work or wherever, and 99% of the time people are either frowning or having a blank expression on their faces. Why? Why do make our lives miserable with our own hands.

Life is hard? So what !!  not just for you.

You've been knocked down? So What !! you can and should get up.

You've been betrayed many times to care to count? So What !! no one is pure in this life, not even yourself, so get over it.

You hate your job. So What !! It is a mean not an end.

People have the wrong idea about you. So what !! you live with the standards that you set, not theirs.

You've lost your way? So What !! who said it has to be a direct route toward your goal, or that your plan is the best for yourself.

Someone dear to you died? So What !! this is the cycle of life, we are all gonna die someday. not a surprise BTW

So what !! you're alive, and still have some breath in you, so why waste them bringing yourself down. You're the own source of your power, you're the ignition to your fulfilling your dreams.

So what !! So what is stopping you !!!!!!

People Type I

This type is seriously present in many of the situations that we face, actually in our life and in our daily routine.

Allow me to demonstrate:

You’re in a public transportation and playing with your mobile or reading something, and half the people within vision area are sharing what you're doing with you, you're speaking on the phone with someone and you find a sympathetic ear that wants to contribute to your problem that you didn't want to share.

YES, you've guessed it right. It’s the nosey type, being called different names through different situations and different eras; Eavesdropper, intrusive, snooper…. etc.

What’s wrong with this person?

This person tends to interfere with other people's life without their permission or desire, and sometimes actually against people's wishes, leading -most of the time- to discomfort to the person whose life they are complicating.

This person can sometimes get toughened up by others and hear very unpleasant things.

And as always there's an upside, so what's GOOD about this person?

Their curiosity always enriches their knowledge -though it may not be of great benefit to them-

  

So they mingle, and interfere and waste time, sometimes they mean well, but that doesn't stop it from being annoying and it also doesn't stop them for interfering