Experience is the name everyone gives to their mistakes

We live and learn, we watch and develop our thinking. We study previous cases, and keep in mind other people's life events so that relearn something, but the point is that we don't learn exactly what THEY've learnt. Instead we learn things according to our vision and our perception of what took place.

When we take it in our hand the learning process from other's experiences, it becomes easier to conceive most of the possible and well-suited lessons for us.

But it is when others try to force THEIR learnt lessons from THEIR own experiences that is when things get complicated, that's when they start shoving unnecessary information down our throats and into our minds.

That’s when they fail to notice that maybe we need to make the same mistakes as they did but only to learn different lessons, or maybe their mistakes aren't mistakes to us, instead they are a turning point, a necessary one for our growing up and becoming more mature persons.