Which to which

We all have our happy moments and our sad moments.

Some of us like to share them to get through them, others prefer to keep to them selves. 

All is understandable

But let's agree to a simple fact, it's easy to fake a smile than a tear.

When telling people you're happy moments you'll be facing one of many options:

* People may be truly happy for you, whether they know you or even if they don't.

*People may pretend to be happy for you, even though it made no difference to them.

*People may envy you, for your happiness may seem something that is not achievable to them.

*People may use your happiness to fuel their engines to bring out the best in them.

When telling people about your sad moments, you may encounter other reactions:

*Some will be truly hurt as if it was them and not you.

*Some will use your sadness to spot the light to themselves.

*Some will try to fake sadness, but won't be able to keep the façade for so long.

*Some will ignore you and your pain.

*Some will look up to your pain and get motivated to be strong.

Which situation do you want to share with which people is totally depending on you:

You may want to know who really cares about you and who wants to see you fall, so you choose to share your sad moment with those you'd want to test.

You may decide to withhold your happiness cause it won't help the people around you to move forward.

You may share your sadness to make people see that there's a downside to life that you can beat and can move forward from.

It's all depending on you, so before anything, deal with your moments and share them as soon as you can with those that you choose.